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Well here goes another married man to add to the dime a dozen.
I have been married for little over 20 years. I have had a successful military career and now doing something I'm passionate about. But through out the years I've had AP here and there. Juat like so many that have posted before this. So for full context and status...
Been married for 20 years and have had a second life of hooking up discreetly on and off throughout. Have been with couples and women, discreetly with no strings attached but made great friends. Mostly it was a physical thing, all about the sexual attraction and the adrenaline or that exciting butterfly feeling of being discret. Doing something secretive. We talk about life and common interest and things we don't openly share with our spouses cause of the perspective we already know we would receive. I'm the typical cheating husband that hook up at hotels to be transparent 🤦♂️😊.
Here, I am giving OA a try. Looking for the same connection minus the physical face to face or the sex. I'm not opposed to meeting in person obviously but I feel the online connection is much less risky and less to plan around to meet up. Not looking to change anyone's status but someone that is open-minded. I hope that's transparency enough. Anyway please hmu if you feel we can connect or vibe together as they say now. I'm in my 40s, educated and open-minded. So that's the level and generation I'm going to be in when we chat. Thanks for reading this if you made it this far cause it's hard to type all of this on a damn phone lol. Aloha!
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