You know those people who can suck the energy out of you by just talking to you. Either they bore you to death or enrage you with their acts... Well that's not me and it also shouldn't be you!

Ideally we feed off each other's energy without depleting it. Sharing laughs, smiles and good times. So I'm warning you now! If you espouse negativity, use one word responses, and have no sense of humor then please keep away... I'm going to say no to you energy vampires!

I know exactly what I want and so should you! I understand the unique challenges that comes with these types of relationships and fully respect boundaries and privacy and I expect the same. This should be FUN and not another source of stress. I have time for this and so should you. I want daily communication, voice notes, pic exchanges, flirting and the good vibes and feels that come with it.

A little about me:

Stats * 35 years old * 6'0 200 lb - and very proud of the 65 lbs I lost year to date * Dark black hair, nice trim beard * Palestinian-American, speak 3 languages * Live in Central CA, Dad of kids and cats

Interests * Cooking... Well and food, I do consider myself a foodie. I make all kinds of yummy recipes. * Gaming - been gaming all my life. A little less so last couple years but still a huge part of my life * Outdoors - camping, kayaking, hiking * Travel - been all over the world * Self-improvement - this is a newer addition for sure. It was my version of a mid-life crisis. Some people turn to self destruction and bad habits...I on the other hand decided to lose weight and be the best me possible instead

A little bit about you!

• Close to my age - being born in 89 I tend to connect better with 90s kids as opposed to early 80s. I'm not going to define an age number but you shouldn't be too young or much older than me
• You obviously need to be married! And preferably in a stable situation - not looking to get attached and then you're getting a divorce and disappear (yep that's what just happened to me 🫠 )
• Have things that you're passionate about and excited about. Have a little bit of a flirty sass and a sense of humor...Again - no energy vampires
• PST/MST is a must - I'm a night owl and like to have the opportunity to chat in the evening.
• Being that I'm Palestinian I don't expect you to be super up to date on the genocide that my people are experiencing but also I'm a hard no on any Zionist or Zionist sympathizer. But also if you're a free Palestine girly run the front of the line please
• Telegram - you have to use it. And ideally we move there quickly to do a pic exchange

Physical attraction is very important, but so is chemistry and both need to fit together like a perfectly aligned puzzle. I find my physical attraction spectrum to be broad but I do have a type. I prefer feminine women who are conventionally attractive and on the shorter side and either Latina or middle Eastern. The height and ethnicity are not a requirement but that's just my type. Curvy, skinny, average (basically you need to be hwp) doesn't matter as much but I'm just not into bbw I'm sorry...I've been working hard on myself so ideally you are also into self improvement and being the best version of you that's possible.

This is already getting long but here's the gist - I want our connection to feel amazing just like you. I want to be excited to wake up and say good morning, I want to be excited to get pictures from you and see your smile. I want our energy to be overflowing with positive vibes, the opposite of an energy vampire would do. If you feel like you're a good match then drop me a line and let's see where this journey takes us