Ok I send nudes, sexting and phone calls too. I want a lover who inspires me not treating me like a sex toy or just an FWB. I want that chemistry, that spark, I want that feeling to grab my phone and can’t wait to look at the message. I want those flirty conversations. I want to be pampered.

About me:

-Married, no kids, housewife.

-One-side polyamorist.

-168cm 60kg (often being asked if I’m a student while I’m doing groceries, we Asian don’t really age lol)

-Bookworm (literature, social science, history, philosophy)

-Cinephile (everything except horror, I’m fine with cult movies)

-Gym rats (spending 1.5hr in the gym 4-5 times per week, weight training and cardio) -Music lover with a messy Spotify playlist (I play piano and cello)

-Polyglot (Duolingo is the only game on my phone) I don’t do hiking, I’m a homebody, love spending time alone but feeling lonely and need a company.

Looking for someone:

-who accepts it’s gonna be an online thing only, no intention to change your/my status

-who also wants someone to inspire him, not keep asking for nude pics or giving me instruction. Go find someone else if you’re in a rush.

-intellectual compatible (share common interest and willing to step into my world, don’t be a topic killer)

-got memes and love dogs and cats, love watching random YouTube videos

-I dont expect a hot guy but at least someone who exercise

-nerdy guy working in science field is a big turn on for me, especially pure science

-big bonus if you’re a dad, do you want a babygirl?

-age 35-45

I’m living in Asia, I know most of you are living in US/Canada or Europe. As I said I’m a housewife so I’m free and for the time zone problem, we can sort it out.

Happy searching.