Summer flings are overrated; cuddling in the autumn breeze is more of my style. I want something that carries on through the new year. Something long term, exciting, and adventurous. I want to create something that fills in the void we’re both missing in our day to day lives. I’m not looking to change anybody’s situation, nor do I plan on leaving my marriage. just missing the spark and affection that’s been gone.

About me? I was born and raised in Southern California, but moved down south a few years ago. Appearance wise, I’m 5’8, long dreadlocks, bearded, a few tattoos. Built arms, broad shoulders, athletic body. I have a deep voice, big lips and a flirtatious mouth. Traveled to about half of the states in the country, I also lived in Mexico for a year at one point. Former football player, college graduate, mentor, tech nerd, avid reader, anime/animation enthusiast. I have quite the varied music tastes ranging from rap, hardcore punk, pop, metal, and classic rock.

I’m searching for a partner that’s spontaneous, flirtatious, and conversational. A partner that I can share laughs with, and share a special connection with. Although I do not have children, it’s not a dealbreaker if you do. My ideal partner is someone who is between 25-45; I don’t mind a strictly online affair, my marriage started as a long distance relationship. However if you’re looking for something potentially in person down the line, then please be located somewhere in the southeast (AL,GA,FL,NC,SC) or California. I have a soft spot for accents (especially country ones) colored eyes, I love curves, but they’re not a necessity. I appreciate all body types.

I prefer a partner that uses telegram should we get to that point, I take staying safe on this journey quite seriously; given that I work in Education, discretion is a must. I’m looking for a partner that’s available more than just a few times a day, someone who makes me light up inside when i get their notification. Someone who I can give affection to, and receive it back. A partner who becomes my best friend. Sending good morning texts is a routine I miss having, just as much as I miss sending flirty texts throughout the day. I’m a night owl, so late night conversations are something I’m available for quite a bit if you have those lonely nights too.

Overall I’m just looking to experience those feelings that have been missing for so long, and i know she’s out there maybe she’s you.

If i caught your eye, here’s a virtual cup of coffee ☕️ let’s have a chat, and get to know each other. As someone who studies a lot of history for work, I’m ready to write my own chapter, I’m just missing you.