Married. Brown hair, green eyes, 5'10" white, tattoos, attractive, full time job that is fulfilling both spiritually and financially.

Funny, easy going, and empathetic to a fault. No kids, one dog. I love gardening and cooking; there is something so satisfying about the process of seed to harvest to plate.

I want someone to match my energy and fill in mundane moments throughout the day. To share the feeling of excitement when we see a text notification but can’t check it right away. Someone who doesn't know the difference between sarcasm and flirting. Chocolate tastes better with a little bit of salt, doesn't it? I'm not afraid to embrace my feelings and collaborate on a space where we both can feel safe. I’d like a slow-burn type thing to build anticipation and attraction. Something that feels the same as Menswear by The 1975. Looking for online at first, but will want to go irl if it's right.

Physical attraction is pretty important, so I'd prefer to get that out of the way early on. If it doesn't work out after that, I'm not the type to hold a grudge, we all have our likes and dislikes. Be choosy.

I work from home and stay up late so I have plenty of time for what I want here. I’m looking for honesty; I'm very direct and not looking to play games. If I'm not feeling it, I'll say so and we can continue our search.

In an ideal situation we would chat about similar interests, notice our texting styles compliment each other and hit it off, which then flows into more dynamic conversation about literally whatever, and add just a dash of contextually appropriate flirting.

If I sound like someone you want to know, what are you waiting for?

Start with a short intro about yourself and include some interests of your own, or comment on some of the things I've mentioned here. Let's start a conversation, not small talk.