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42 [M4F] London - Don’t give up because it’s out there
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n_in_london is a male age 42 looking for a female
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Hi all,

Firstly I just wanted to say that despite how frustrating this sub can be and this search can be, don’t give up as it is possible to find someone! I had something great for a while and while it didn’t quite work out in the end it was for good reasons and I have no regrets. If you’re thinking of giving in, give it one more go!

Aaaanywaaay, I’m a 40 year old married man from London. I have 2 kids and a fairly busy but fulfilling job. My marriage isn’t terrible or anything but like a lot of people in my situation you come to realise which is that you invest so much of your time and yourself into the relationship and the family and what they need that one day you realise you’ve lots a lot of yourself in there. You’ve been absorbed and now there isn’t so much of yourself left.

I’m looking for someone I can be me with, someone that I can help discover themselves again and re-discover myself in the process. Hopefully in that process we can find a spark and some connection and build something great. Ideally I’m looking for someone UK/europe based as the whole transatlantic timezone hopping thing can be a challenge.

About me: I am a standard, by the book, middle aged nerd. I love all things sci-fi and fantasy and all types of 80s and 90s nostalgia (probably considered ancient history to most of you). I love art, books, music, politics, fashion and culture and will talk for hours about most of it.

I realise I’ve rambled on for a long time so I’ll leave it there but hopefully if this resonated with you, you’ll shoot me a message and we can chat more and get to know each other

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a male
Age
42
Looking For
a female
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17 hours ago