Hello ladies of reddit. I am a father of 3, stuck in a dead marriage. I sleep on the couch every night. Have not been intimate in a very long time. Looking for some excitement in my life once again. I am from the Midwest, in the central time zone. I work in IT, and can check in during the afternoons, but in the evening is when I will be free most of the time.

I'm not looking to change your situation, but I am looking for deep conversations, connections, and some naughty fun from time to time. I've been told I'm handsome, but don't really believe it. I'm full of dad jokes. Been told I have a good sense of humor. I would like to do picture exchanges right away. I would also like to move off of reddit sooner than later. Snap would be my preferred method of communication for now. Hopefully can exchange phone numbers after connections and trust have been built. I'm looking to keep this online only, but not opposed to meeting in person if we decide we can't keep our hands of each other.

I want those butterflies again. I want to be excited to check my messages. I'm 5'10 220 lbs. I guess you could say I have a dad bod, but I am currently on a weight loss journey and I'm working on getting healthier. I'm certainly not a super model and don't expect my online lover to be either.

My preferred online partner would be located in the US, or Canada, but willing to talk to anybody from anywhere. I'm a history buff, and a nerd, so bonus points if you are too. I lean left politically, and I need my partner to be the same. That is a deal breaker for me. I do have a child that is gay and if that isn't okay with you then you are not okay with me. I would also like my partner to also have children. People with children just understand that kids always come first. Some nights are going to be busy driving kids around and what not. If you don't have children that is cool, but I just really need you to understand that they come first. (this has been a problem in the past)

I have a wide range of musical interests. I like to say I enjoy everything from Abba -> Zappa. Right now, on my playlist you will find Louis Armstrong, Slayer, Flogging Molly, Jellyroll, I really like it all.

In my free time you will catch me watching Its Always Sunny in Philidelphia, Curb Your Enthusiasm, South Park, and WWII documentaries. I do play the occasional video game, but as I get older the less fun they become. I like fishing and don't do it near as much as I like. I have access to a public wooded trail behind my house and love walking it and enjoying nature. My perfect first date would just be a nice picnic in a park. I love camping, nothing better than curling up with a woman in a tent at night laughing and talking the night away.

Let's make some magic together!