What a gorgeous fall Monday. Getting off work at this hour (2pm) just makes it that much nicer. I survived a near upset to my alma mater Saturday and screamed at the Hail Mary that lifted my pro team to win yesterday so the football vibes are off the charts as well this week.

Heading into the Halloween week really hoping to find that person that gets me off of here and has me giddy for the next message, I mean we all are, just got a good feeling about throwing this post up today amidst all this perfect autumn aura.

No need to go into too much detail about my home life because I’m probably here for similar reasons you are. I like attention, I have attention to give, I have free time during my days to send pics/voice/gifs etc and I crave the flirty, fiery, sexy blah blah blah that’s missing at home. Sounds familiar right?

I have a daughter, work a manual labor job and get up early and go to bed early. This means there might be a drop off in late night texts and voice notes but I’ll never disappear for more than a short chunk of time. I want more than a 9-5 thing and I’m up super early to send that good morning text everyday- so if you can respect my dad hours on nights and weekends we should have no issues! Obviously I’m posting this at night so sometimes I have freedom even then.

I like to move to telegram when there’s a vibe. And if you’re like me, the vibe is usually either felt within the first 15 mins or it just never catches on. It seems to be the nature of the beast here. Brutal honesty is also needed in this whole adventure.

So I’m guessing you want to know what I look like and what I’m into… here goes. I’m 6 foot, and so happy I hit that mark, 220lbs with short auburn hair, blue eyes, freckles and a trimmed beard. Yeah I’m kinda a ging, but more on the day walker side of that whole thing. I played college baseball for two years, now just dabble in adult softball. I love trivia and watch Jeopardy almost every night of the year. I use cooking and cleaning as therapy. I watch way too much shitty reality like Love is Blind, married at first sight, 90day etc all because I can shut my brain off and judge others from my couch. It’s pretty great, isn’t it. I don’t make time to read as much as I should but I’ve been known to dominate a crossword and/or sudoku on the regular . Sarcasm and swearing are second languages to me- I can hang with the best of em. I promise.

Now that you know a little about me I’ll say I’m not picky about looks but I’ve always been a sucker for the not-so-shy types that come with energy. I tend to give bonus points to the moms out there near/in the eastern time zone because it’s just easier to relate to one another and all that comes with having little demon(s) in the house- yes that includes spouses for some of you reading.

Anyway, hopefully you’re into the leggings and comfy tops season and looking for a fun way to start the week as we head barrel Halloween! I have my secret stash of Kit Kats in the pantry, what do you syphon off for yourself I wonder? I’ll be eagerly anticipating your message! Have a good day y’all.