So I've been debating posting on here.. mainly because everyone seems to have the same mentality. They think they're great and all that but usually end up being boring or shallow. I don't want to be that! Hey there! We should chat!

I'm an open book, so please feel free to ask anything! (I'm also a talker so be prepared).

29, married and not looking to change my situation. Hopefully you aren't either. I love my wife, but that fun spark and constant banter just isn't there. As many of you deal with the same, I too am basically a roommate. We communicate but not as well as I'd like.

At the risk of sounding arrogant, I am quite smart. So if you are a mentally stimulating conversationalist then please come to the forefront! These conversations that last a couple days are boring and I just can't.

I'm 29, as I said, but I'm an old soul that's always been too mature for my peers. It's rough. So I've always hung out with an older crowd. I was the kid that had 80yo friends at the feed store when I went with papa.

I'm in the US, Oklahoma to be exact. I'm a down to earth southern guy. I'm a gentleman, but do have a freaky side (in due time). I'm blue collar. I know many of you are after white collar people and that's okay! I just might be a lil rough around the edges lol. I love to work with my hands and stay busy with all sorts of things. I'm 6', bald, bearded, blue eyes, and not nearly enough tattoos. My humor is hard to rival lol. I love to laugh, and I'm fluent is sarcasm. I like to read too when I get the chance (typically dark romance (don't judge)). There's really not much I'm not into. I try to be kind. I'm a very patient and understanding person and I've been told I'm wise beyond my years. (If you need advice or an ear I'm here for it).

This is getting longer than I intended but stick with me. I'm getting to the tid bits now I promise.

I'm a little bit of a bigger guy but try to take care of myself. So if you're after abs, sorry darlin I ain't it. However if you like a strong guy that's a lil more heavy set then I'm the guy for you! I may have a bit of a mouth on me too, so if cursing isn't for you I will try my best to refrain. Just don't be shocked if a f-bomb is ever dropped lol.

What I'm looking for... I'm one for connection and conversation. I want to know everything about you and talk consistently. I'm a good listener too, don't think all I do is talk haha. I want that OA where I can't get enough of our conversation. For you ladies worried about spice.. that's not my priority. It will come in time, maybe sooner if we click. Who knows. There should be an attraction between us, but I by no means expect you to be a model lol. Personality > looks! Bring your true self to the table. No need to put on a facade or anything, I want you to be unapologetically you. You're age isn't a tie breaker, just be 20 and mature. Be able to hold a conversation... pleasseee. We are adults, let's act like it.

If you made it through that disaster of a post, shoot me a message. Let's see if we click.

If anything in my post stood out let me know, if you want an elaboration on a certain thing then don't be scared. I don't bite! Not all the time at least lol.

I look forward to getting to know you and I'm eager to get your message😊