And I mean that.
I appreciate you taking the time to be in this space with me. It's what I want for us.

I want to create a space that's for us. You, me, and everything we want to bring to each other. A space you are free to express yourself in all the ways you want. A place where I welcome you with comfort and warmth. A secret place. A sacred place. A place where you can be honest with yourself mostly where no judgement will be held against you. I want to help you relax. To ease your mind from the stress even if only during the times we chat. I want to build a connection with you. I want to converse with you about anything and everything. You want to chat about your day, then that's what we do. You want to relay something heavy in your life; I'm all ears. You want to trade puns and dad jokes? Let's go. Just be real with yourself and with me.

I need a connection with you before anything meaningful happens between us. If I wanted to have a sexting session with some rando woman, there's sites for that. There are sites if I want to see some woman naked. My solo echos of self pleasure are not the point. The point is feeling your desires and letting you feel mine. The act is meaningless without it. It is everything with it. To have you want to share your intimate thoughts and body with me, is everything. The stronger the connection we have, the stronger the bond, the more powerful those moments are. It can be awkward testing the waters, but let's dive in and get lost together. Let's drift down the coast together and lose our spot on the beach.
For me, the beauty is in your want and desire to share yourself with me. It's entirely about where we are on the journey with each other. That's why I want to create a safe harbor for you to be yourself. I need to feel the authentic you. I want to create that space where you feel comfortable sharing that. Days, weeks, months matters not to me as long as we keep building it together.

More about me physically: 44/M/EST 6'2" 220lbs. I have light eyes and a kind smile. I give off a kind, nice guy vibe that are juxtaposed with my deliciously provocative thoughts. I have a more handsome than hot physical aesthetic. I adore giving and getting smiles and leaving people a bit better than when I found them. I'm a HWP and happily a dad. Despite my best efforts, I'm in a dead bedroom situation though.
While my hobbies and workout routine did exist at one point outside the house, it's relocated mostly inside. These days I'm busy working, cooking, taking care of the house. I tend to give myself late evening to relax, read/research things that are interesting to me or playing an odd video game or two. I would like to spend that time and get caught up in thoughts of you. All the better to chat with you then, but I also adore occupying my mind with making your fantasies come alive in written form.

If you're tired of ghosts, men looking for a quick fix, men who can't talk about, well anything, then look my direction. I'm not afraid of my feelings or yours. I'm not afraid of successful, intelligent women. I adore stay at home moms and working professionals. If you're tired of always driving the conversation then let's start one where we just swing from one topic to the next keying off of what the other person said and wonder how we got 15 subjects away without even trying.

I vibe best with women who value active dads, stay at home moms, have highly successful careers, or on the fringes of what people consider typical in their work or play. Please send me a message and let me know how this highly empathetic guy may create a world where our minds and then our emotions are uplifted up together daring each other to soar higher and closer.