..maybe i can occupy your thoughts?

You're from the UK, hard working, always on the go, making sure your family is safe and well, you're busy running the household, always tidying up after them all, you do the weekly shop, prepare and cook the evening meal, you probably plan the family holiday every year too. The only moments peace you have is when you soak in the bath, or manage to find the time to settle down with a good book..

..and when you're having your moments peace, you can't help but wonder, wonder what it would feel like to be noticed again, for a man to go out of his way for you, to check in on you, send you 'good morning...' message's for when you wake up, and let's face it, some mornings can be monotonous, when all you need is something to lift your spirits, like a virtual hug, to settle you in for the day ahead.

Your mind still wondering, what feelings would stir up from within, desire, and the feeling of being cared for, excitement, and giddiness, oh and those butterflies too, maybe?

So who i am? Well, im a husband and a father, although my marriage is good, at times it's not so great, most of the time we're best friends, heading into a dead bedroom. I'm quietly confident and fairly intelligent, easy to get along with, inquisitive, down to earth and fairly laid back when in good company, im more of a glass half full type of man. I consider myself to be a gentleman, polite, courteous and emotionally intelligent. Even though im nearly 50, i look a little younger than i am, in fairly decent shape, with a full head of hair, a short greying beard, and I've been told i have nice kind eyes and a warm smile.