To the untrained eye, we both seem like a bundle of contradictions. You’re free-spirited but responsible. A dreamer with street smarts. Accomplished, confident, and strong—with a deep longing to just let go. I’m passionate but grounded. Open-hearted and wise. Loving, gentle, and kind—but I know how to take charge when the time is right. Ironically, we’re both really loyal and the very last people anyone would suspect of stepping outside our marriages. But here we are!

I’m seeking the jib to my jab, the zig to my zag, my quirky long lost Wonder Twin with a penchant for mischief and a desire for old-fashioned high jinx.

This isn’t my first rodeo and it’s probably not yours, either. We both know that good communication is key to how this thing works. Neither of us is looking to leave our spouses, but open to developing real feelings. While online affairs can be great, ultimately we’re both people who hunger for physical touch, so if we hit it off, we’re open to meeting in person.

Attraction and sexual chemistry are obviously important, but without emotional and intellectual connection, things fizzle and fade pretty quickly. So let’s take our time. Having said that, I’m fairly tall (6’1), take pretty good care of myself physically, and am well groomed and attractive in a “hot for teacher“ kind of way! But let’s exchange pics fairly early and you can be the judge.

What else?

I love music, travel, and art of all kinds. I grew up in a lot of different places and it’s made me open-minded and accepting of diverse ideas, cultures, and beliefs. But I’m pretty liberal politically, and have little tolerance for intolerance, so if you have an issue with that let’s just wish each other well! As my headline suggests, I have kids and being a parent is an important part of my identity. Hopefully you can relate.

If any of this strikes a chord, let’s chat and see if things click.