To each there own, but there is a lot of us lurking around on Reddit that is not really wanting to have happy, friendly chat all the time.

As for me, I have never bought into the "friendship first" notions that exist out there. I'm a healthy guy alive and not dying, you're a healthy girl who is alive and not dying.

In real life, you could be a great, wonderful, nice person to get to know, but I also want to get to know that naughty side of you. I want to have decent conversations come alive with some vivid ideas of you being a lady being attracted to a man like me. We might never get to meet for real, but that does not mean we cannot fill our DMs with some suggestive stuff that for certain is NSFW. Emotional...not quite. Sexual...certainly. Explore something here and there...why not! Thoughts that go into kinks...let's go there!

I'm not looking for somebody who fakes this, you'll get found out eventually! I'm not asking you to be available all day, but when you write a DM to me, make it something that is worth reading. Connection wise, I can be quite loquacious in what I write. Funny how my mind works, fill my mind with ideas and a maybe a photo and I can come back with a long page of stuff to say what I'd be doing in that situation.

I’m not desperate and perpetually horny by any stretch of the imagination but I’d be lying when I say that some mutual attraction and an equally cerebral connection will matter in making this worth doing. I'm 53 years old, married, 5'11", blue eyes, intelligent, articulate, drama/disease/drug free. I'm active, healthy but not a gym rat with the sculpted body. I’m more than confident and I can be quite literary to bring the heat if we want to go there. I’ve had enough of the “how’s your day going?” emails and I am looking to spice things up.

And BTW, I live in Canada...not that this would matter in an online something, I don't have skin in the game when it comes to politics...but talk about hockey and I'm there.

Shoot your shot lady! Nice girls finish last, so remember that when you tell me about you.