Hi there. This is new to, to post. But I’m putting it out there.

I’m a 43 male from Australia. Accent and all. I am happily married and have a school aged daughter. The two women in my life are amazing to me. But I’m missing something. And it’s that spark. That fun, flirty, sexy dynamic. I love my wife dearly but we have a somewhat dead bedroom and don’t nearly interact in a flirtatious way as I’d like.

More about me. I work in tech and am fairly available Australian work hours. Which does correspond with other Aussies with similar hours, or with other time zones and their after hours. I love being outside. This doesn’t mean being active, but I love that too. I love the beach, hiking, playing soccer and tennis, bike riding, and even running. But I also love a lazy picnic with beers, sitting in the sun, enjoying each others company. Getting too drunk and too flirty.

I enjoy film and tv, I have converted to listening to books over reading them. I’m constantly feeling tired and enjoying coffee. Or good food. Or even shitty food.

I love music and drawing (of which I am terrible at). I even enjoy colouring in. And pottery (still terrible).

I am funny and obnoxious in an endearing way. I don’t take life too seriously, but do love to vent at times. I am not afraid to catch feelings and have this long term, but this for me is going to be online only. I am not looking to change my life. Hope this is the same for you.

For those who want to know, I am of average height, bald head and salt and pepper beard. My build is also average and am working to always make it look slightly above average. I’m happy to share a photo, if you do first.

Now. What am i looking for? You. If you’ve gotten this far send me a chat. I do not have a preference in looks, or personality, or hobbies. We will click and that’s what matters. Say hello, please. And also tell me your favourite colour.

Anyway, I’ve probably not made any sense and typed too long. Talk soon x