The basics about you: I like men who work out (I love gym pics), no big beards (meaning I can see you have a chin), traditionally attractive, hair (please) . Someone with good intentions (as good as they get on here) and initative. Between 28 and 44. I don't like being left on read or made to feel like bootycall, if you leave on read regularly, I won't waste my time. Please be willing to trade pics early. I'd like somesomeone who is able to meet at least twice a year.

The basics on me: I'm mom next door cute. Brunette, 5'3, curves with no rolls. Thick thighs with pretty eyes. I enjoy working out when I can. Hiking, gardening, escape rooms. Mostly I love being a mom. I just miss those butterflies. Being seen beyond a mom and wife, but as a women. I'm looking for the man who brings that out in me. Someone I can make happy and they reciprocate that. I want to feel safe to be vulnerable and affectionate, put my energy towards one person who is worth it. I have small kids, so hobbies or travel is hard they're my focus right now. I also have a busy job, so workdays are difficult to respond. I'd like someone more available nights and weekends (within reason).

I hesitate to put this, but it's been a struggle to find. I'm looking for natural chemistry. I'm attracted to men that are dominant in the bedroom. I'm a natural leader and need one place to let my partner lead and I can just please and relax. To be that, it takes vulnerability on my end, and getting to know eachother on a mental and emotional level too. I open up more when you share your life, initate voice and video chats and do the little things to make me smile. Aftercare, virtual or in person can make or break a situation. I can't stay interested in a person who doesn't talk, or send good morning texts, or doesn't send pictures.

I have no plans to leave my spouse, I want the butterflies and excitement again. My sexy best friend.

If you can't do these things, or don't meet what I'm attracted to, please don't respond. Let's respect eachother's time.

I'll respond to you telling me what you're looking for and what you're attracted to. Pictures help too.