As the title states I'm a man who's married and searching. Alas, after responding to another ad, my reply put things into perspective for me.

Yes we are all here for that connection that seems to be missing from our relationships, but for me it's more now about not only connecting with you, it's rediscovering myself. Life has done something to me I thought it never would, my 'groove', I thought I was coasting along in, is something else...

It appears I've become complacent yet content at the same time, life is good, why change it. Well in the process of coasting along l've lost myself, that's where you come in.

Let's help each other out, be there for each other, when it seems there is nowhere else to turn. I'm looking for a deep connection, daily chat, being excited again to see someone else's message pop up that contains more meaning in your words than I get anywhere else.

I want us to be able to laugh at stupid shit, I want to console you on a bad day, I want to know that you're ok and you know I'm ok. I want us to feel as if we've known each other our whole lives, while possibly never even seeing each other.

I'm in this for the long haul, I just hope you don't fall off along the way. As such, what you might be wondering and something I firmly believe in... I'm not looking to change anyone's situation, but I know there is the slimmest, slightest, most minuscule chance that a deep connection can spark something more. If I ever come across this particular situation, know that options will be heavily weighed before rushing into something that will be life altering.

What more can be said than, I'm waiting, if your out there looking for a genuinely great connection, you may not have to look to much longer.

A little about me: I am a country boy at heart, 6’5, I work a White collar job, I have a lot of flexibility traveling, i am an avid book collector, i do love to hike, I enjoy water skiing, i do enjoy painting, & I do a lot of charity work for the community to keep myself busy.