Obligatory about me:
44/M/EST, but you don't have to be. 6'2" 220 lbs. I take care of myself. My appearance mostly consists of nice guy and handsome. I'm married with typical dead bedroom despite my best efforts. We do life well, but when I seek passion, I hear excuses rather than reasons.
I have kids and am a very active dad. It's best if you have one or multiple kids as well. If you are attracted to a dad that dotes and plays with his kids to get those adorable giggles, we'll get along famously.

Are we finally feeling that crisp air swirling around our bodies? That comfort of finding that warm coat to wrap yourself to hear the rustling of golden leaves swirling around us. It's sublime. Lovely kitschy Halloween decorations dot our neighborhoods. Have you taken the time to notice?

This is for all the women that need some space to be themselves for a bit. If you're a SAHM or a HWP, life can be a tidal wave of constant stress and attention pulls. However, who looks after you and what you need? Who's in your corner giving you a helping hand?

I see it all the time. Women exhausted by not only their schedule and what's required of them, but also the fact that no one has your back. You have countless contacts that only seem to pull from you and almost never give.
I have eyes to see your pain. I see it often and wish I could do more. I hear the occasional bold make comments towards me. I wish I could capitalize on them. However, for you, I wish to be there bold enough to reach back out to me here.

If you are tired of the games and looking for a thoughtful, patient guy to actually listen AND understand you, then please message me. If you've been lurking and poring over post after post seeking someone that can possibly understand, please, try me. Let me be a balm from the burn of stress on your soul.

Why though? Why so focused on stress? Well. It's fairly simple. I want to carve out some space for you in your life. I want to be the one you connect with in that space. Once we can build that rapport, we get to fill that sacred home with anything you wish. Ideally and eventually, when comfort abounds, excitement can take root. I want to entice your mind in all the ways you want and some of the ways you haven't even thought of sharing.

It's not a well kept secret that women find great pleasure in a well crafted story. Why not engage with a man that can help find all those lovely details that breathe life into a scene or scenario in your mind. The seduction and dance is never to be understated. The give and take. The leading and following. The paying attention to signals and listening to your heart despite your mind urging is entirely about trust and connection. Let's build that connection and that trust. Let's start a beautiful little fire that builds you up at your strength. I do not wish to save the day for you. I wish to help prop you up so you can stand with me. I want to see that potential of strength within your heart and mind find it's proper footing. I do not wilt in the presence of a woman with her full voice and mind. I desperately seek it.

Please, allow me to be that cornerstone in this storm you are enduring. Allow me to help you find that proper footing for yourself you've perhaps lost touch with long ago. Please help be a muse so I may sing of your wondrous feminine strength and beauty.
If you wish to know more, please, by all means, look through my previous posts or just ask. It's terribly hard to offend me, and I am painfully nice to everyone until they are blatantly malicious towards me or those I hold dear.