I’m searching for a connection, for the sparks, attention & affection. I miss the flirting and sexual fun between two adults looking for whatever they are missing in their lives. I want the good morning/night messages. I’m looking for the random pics, text, voice messages, calls, videos and video chats! I want to love and be loved by someone, sneaking to the other room to read that message, view that pic you sent or listen to the voice message you sent me or to send those to you! I’m open to IRL if you’re local to me or we're able to make that happen down the road but, online is ok too! I like getting/giving attention...LOTS of it!

I’m a 42 yr old white man who's been married 14 yrs and the bedroom is dead and sex is too! I'm located in the EST time zone. I have a southern accent, dad bod but, still in decent shape and take care of myself. I have good availability for chatting and willing to put the time in for the right connection/person. I know what I want and hope you do as well! I’m very discreet and definitely not new to the affair world although I haven't had a lot of experience with this. I’m sarcastic, smartass, witty and cuss like a sailor. I’m looking for 1 partner & prefer long-term.

I would like to add If you're going to ghost me after a couple days or have second thoughts then don't waste my time! Also, when we exchange pics...if we're not interested then just say so rather than delete the chat, the page or ignore the other person. That's childish & I'm an adult and promise I'll be just fine if I'm not your cup of tea!! I can't be the only one here that feels that way.

Telegram/Discord are my preferred apps outside of reddit!