You know, in the past when I've posted here, it's always taken me a good day or so to craft the perfect, (or what I thought was the perfect) message. this time round I'm just going to type and see what comes of it. If it crashes and burns, it doesn't matter, this is the internet.

I'm 46, from the UK. I do some sports. I like music, both to listen to and to play. I love working out and look good. I build stuff. I work a boring-ish coroporate job but do very well at it. Took me a lot of graft to get where I am, and now I can sort of coast, but still perform. ie, I can talk shit on reddit during a working day with lovely internet strangers :)

My marriage is ok. It has been a lot, lot worse. But we mainly dont yell at each other now, but have a sort of room mates/co parenting thing going on. I miss intimacy and emotional connection. I had a thing with someone online last year, and we nearly met, but then, reasons, and we didn't. It hurt like hell but it did show me that I can feel again.

So what am i looking for... You are fun, dont take life or yourself too seriously. You look after yourself and like to keep fit and healthy. You like to try new things. lets keep it simple. You know why you're here, I'm probably here for a similar reason, i dont want to be too prescriptive, lets just chat, have fun and see if we click.

Location - UK or europe would be nice, so at least there is a chance that if things went thermonuclear we could progress to irl one day. But, please, American ladies, I love the confidence and I love the accent. So if you can deal with the time difference and online only, so can I.

I like to swap pics early on, usually telegram. I work away from home regularly, so thats a thing.

Anyway, if you've got this far - I'm impressed :) might as well say hello :)