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35 Married [M4F] #NY Feed my desire to be desired
Author Summary
desiredoutcomeforyou is a male age 35 looking for a female in New York
Post Body

I'm not just another married guy in my 30s looking for an ego boost or a sexting session. I'm here for a slow burn where anticipation and intimacy build. I believe in flirting beyond surface-level, meaningful conversations, the kind of relationship that excites you and makes you check your messages.

What I'm looking for:

  • A partner in crime who can match me in banter and make every day exciting.
  • I want more than just a physical connection—I want someone I can talk to for hours about deep topics or the silliest things.
  • Age isn't important
  • You're fit-ish and attractive.
  • Confidence and self-assurance are key.
  • A great sense of humor—you can send a perfectly timed GIF or meme that gets a real laugh.
  • You're looking to spice up your routine and find excitement in a new connection without changing your situation.
  • You enjoy deep conversations and occasional "what if" scenarios, like debating the best last meal on earth or whether there's an afterlife.

About me:

  • I'm 5'11", brown-skinned Latino, fit-ish, and love staying active.
  • I still get hit on when I go out, so I can say I'm attractive.
  • Cooking is my thing—I'm great at making something special from leftover ingredients.
  • I work from home, and I'm great at my job. Which allows me time to text throughout the day.
  • I've been described as charming, witty, and a guy who can always lighten up the room with humor.

What I bring:

  • Thoughtful, flirty messages because a well-timed "I was thinking about you" can go a long way.
  • Virtual dates (maybe further?) and surprise playlists to keep things fun.
  • Consistent communication—ghosting isn't my style.
  • I value emotional intelligence and deep, honest connections.

Perks of me:

  • Daily laughs and thoughtful messages with positive energy.
  • A drama-free, fun online relationship focused on genuine connection.
  • Occasional selfies of what I'm cooking up.

If you think we'd click, let me know your age, where you're from, and what song you've got on repeat.

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Account Age
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Comment Karma
56
Profile updated: 1 day ago

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a male
Age
35
Looking For
a female
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