Sick of those typical Reddit connections? Sick of building up and working towards something that seems amazing, only to watch it crumble a few months (ok more typically, a few days or weeks) down the road? Then you’ve come to the right place! I’m a 40/m looking for a real connection, and to actually build something with the right woman.

A little about me. I’m in the standard dead bedroom/emotionally dead marriage that we all love and hold so near and dear! I’m looking for a real connection. I want the butterflies, I want all of the feels!! I desire to not be able to put my phone down while waiting on your next message. Yes! I’m talking to YOU!

Alright all of you lurkers out there. Here’s what I’m looking for.

You are:

Open to falling head over heels for someone and have the time to invest in a connection.

Somewhere between 30 and 50

Have kids. I want us to be able to relate to each other.

Be emotionally available

Be available outside of Monday to Friday 9-5.

Be sarcastic and funny and open to banter. A sense of humor is an absolute must!

Be a very good communicator. I love deep conversation. I want to learn about you.

Don’t be opposed to conversations down the road of possibly moving this offline if we both feel comfortable.

I’m in the EST time zone. So EST or CST preferred as it’s easier, but not opposed to MST or PST

If you are happy in your marriage, chances are very high I won’t be interested. I enjoy cake far too much in real life. I’m not looking for cake eaters on here! I’m not content just being your emotional therapy puppy while you work on your marriage with your spouse. I want soooo much more than that!!!

I’m an average looking guy with a large beard and a shaved head. Total dad bod here. I definitely don’t over focus on looks at all. A great mind and good conversation is super sexy to me! That’s what I’m after. I’m fine exchanging pictures whenever you are.

Alright did you make it to the end? If so, congratulations!!! If I haven’t scared you away yet, and you feel like everything that I’ve said resonates with you, please send me a message!!! I’d love to hear from you!!!