Like the title says, I’m looking for a long term affair partner in the area. I’ve posted in the past, had some great chats going and ultimately decided to focus on a single connection. Unfortunately it didn’t work out so I’m back again but this time only looking for local VS out of state with potential to travel.

Please do NOT reach out if:

-You are not married or you’re a cake eater and perfectly happy in your marriage

-You have never had an affair before. I don’t want anyone new to this dealing with guilt or inexperience to get caught

-You don’t have time to chat outside of meeting in person. I want someone who can actually message, do calls, send pics / videos outside of meeting up in person when our schedules permit. If you can only talk as a 9-5, we’re not looking for the same thing

-You’re just looking for a hook up or the physical aspects of this. I want emotions and an actual relationship outside of our current ones (not to replace but to enhance) but I want to be clear. I’m not just looking for sex

If none of the above describe you, here’s what I am looking for:

-Physically I want someone hot. Someone with a handsome face and a fit body. I’m not into super slim dudes or guys beyond a “fit dad bod”. I want someone who hits the gym and takes care of their body because I do.

-You have a full head of hair

-You have good hygiene, smell nice, know how to dress yourself

-You have the means to meet up and maybe even take trips together in the future if things lead that way

-You know how to have a conversation. You aren’t going to give me short responses and you’ll ask me questions to get to know me too. You won’t disappear for 12 hours without trying to give me a heads up of what’s going on

-You can have the deep convos but also the lighthearted fun. The joking, the banter, the flirting. You’re willing to open up and actually share good and bad together.

If you think you check off the right boxes, please reach out and tell me a little bit about you, what you’re looking for, your experiences, something more than “hi”.

If you include a picture, I’ll definitely be more inclined to respond more quickly. Either way, I’ll be asking to swap pics immediately to gauge attraction.