Glad you picked up this copy of my letter from this sea of possibilities. If what you read doesn't feel like it was for you, kindly put it back inside the bottle and throw it back.

By now you've probably been searching for a long time. Months, maybe years. So have I. Some success here and there but nothing seems to last. I have felt victim to the idea that this is a numbers game in the past, but I refuse to keep using that approach. Maybe you've grown numb to the constant grind and disappointment of the search. What's even the right approach for this? You know what you want but going directly after it feels forced and like you're interviewing candidates for a job. Trying to let it happen organically seems aimless and risky because... Wasn't that "organic" way how you ended up married to the wrong person?

Not our spouse's fault, we didn't know any better and it just happened. They're good people and we never want to hurt them, we care about them and probably will remain with them for life. You have it all! Career, kids, hobbies, passions, even an enjoyable and regular sex life... But you know that the answer to that question "Would you marry that person again?" Is a quick and easy NO.

So, you got online to find someone who, in another life, you would have picked once and many times over. The one who wouldn't judge you if you shared that very dirty fantasy. The one who would laugh with you when you admitted that you once licked a bit if hand soap because it just smelled sooooo gooooooood... The one who will stir inside you the bittersweet feeling of having finally found the right match... Just a decade or so too late.

Well, here I am. Here you are. Hopefully. Let's give us an honest try. If you feel this was written for you, don't hesitate to message me, there's only one way to find out if we're right for each other.