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My first foray here five months ago was going swimmingly. Met one woman and hit it off. Flirted, bantered, and shared everything about our lives.
Thought I had a wonderful slow burn. Told her I was off OA. She was it for me.
And as it turns out, she was using me as an emotional support animal and stringing me along. Did she tell me? Of course not. I had to realize this for myself.
After the time and emotional investment of chatting daily for five months, I was left feeling as undesired and taken for granted as l am at home.
I want to be desired. I want you to feel desired.
But first. Let's chat. I do want to know about you. I do want to know how your day is. I do want to find joy and amusement in the ordinary. But I also want to know what makes you feel good and wanted. Let's see if we each can be what the other is missing. And if not? That's fine. Just tell me.
I'm a generally happy person, clever, outgoing with the right person, highly educated with a liberal arts background, and currently feeling very burned. Be kind. Be honest in your intentions and needs and where I can fit in. Above all, be a decent human being.
As for my demographics: I'm white, green and brown eyes, 5'11", hwp, have a career I love and find meaningful, and two small kids whom I adore and keep me very active. I'm fluent in a foreign language (one of the hard ones) and working on picking up another for work. I love music, cooking, and travel.
Drop me a line. Tell me what helps you rebound. Maybe l'll give it a whirl.
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