The basics about you: I like men who work out (I love gym pics), no big beards (meaning I can see you have a chin), traditionally attractive, hair (please) . Someone with good intentions (as good as they get on here) and initative. Between 28 and 44. I don't like being left on read or made to feel like bootycall, if you leave on read regularly, I won't waste my time. Please be willing to trade pics early.

The basics on me: I'm mom next door cute. Brunette, 5'3, curves with no rolls. Thick thighs with pretty eyes. I enjoy working out when I can. Hiking, gardening, escape rooms. Mostly I love being a mom. I just miss those butterflies. Being seen beyond a mom and wife, but as a women. I'm looking for the man who brings that out in me. Someone I can make happy and they reciprocate that. I want to feel safe to be vulnerable and affectionate, put my energy towards one person who is worth it. I have small kids, so hobbies or travel is hard they're my focus right now. I also have a busy job, so workdays are difficult to respond. I'd like someone more available nights and weekends (within reason).

I want that person I can simply be myself with. Be me. I want to connect naturally mentally, emotionally and sexually.

I want to grow close enough so I can send you "hey babe! Thinking of yous" throughout the day.

I want to be goofy and send you my random thoughts and observations. No matter how out there they are. Someone that appreciates my willingness to be authentic.

I want to feel sexy and tell you my dirty thoughts. Tease you, crave you and not be worried it's not reciprocated.

I want to feel safe being yours. Express my emotional, sexual and mental needs without worry I'll say the wrong thing.

I don't want to leave my spouse, but I do want to meet you. Someday. When it makes sense. Looking for that natural connection where we both feel it, and it's easy.

I hope you can be yourself too, and our personalities mesh well. I need a man that can lead and show initative. If I'm the only one sharing my life or wanting voufe and cideo calls....it's just not for me. I'm looking for that natural connection with a man that makes his own energy versus feeding off mine. When attraction and effort is there, these things are easy.

I hope you find me!