Well, reading posts on here the last few days has been......interesting to say the least but I'm willing to give this a try.

I'm not married and I don't have children but I am stuck in a soul and love sucking relationship that has turned me numb in a way over the last 11 years. I'm a very loving and passion filled person so the entire thing has drained me. Constantly giving and not getting anything in return unless he saw fit to barely do the bare minimum and it was only for his enjoyment in the end.

I'm an artist, musician, and gamer, among other things, so another creative person would be nice. Of course I like to read and have several shows and movies lined up to make my way through and I love to learn new things. Music is my biggest passion and I listen to a wide variety but have my favorite genres and decades of music. What I'm listening to can reflect what I'm feeling at the moment. I work from home so availability isn't too much of an issue but I would prefer someone without kids (I can be selfish and I want attention) which may mean no dice for me on here. Looks aren't a deal breaker if you have a good personality and can give me the affection that I'm seeking. I'm average looking but would want someone that loves my personality and the person I am more than anything. I shouldn't have to say this but be able to hold a conversation, be engaging, show me that you want to talk to me and I'll do the same. I'm not looking for someone too old or too young but I guess it depends on how we click because that makes a difference. If you absolutely can't talk to me without seeing what I look like first then I'm probably not the person for you, I will send SFW pictures but that's not my focus. (Most people have on here that they're not wanting to change their situation so do looks really matter that much or ya'll just want nudes from attractive women without having to pay for them?)

I'm not looking to rush into anything sexual but I am a very kinky person. Nudes and sexting are off the table until I feel a connection, that's not the only thing I'm on here for and if you can't respect that then I'm not the person for you.

I'm here for an emotional connection, to have my cup filled and to fill someone else's.