This community gives me life

Good morning

I'm not sure what proper etiquette is for this type of thing. And my Antisocial personality doesn't really care 😉

I am keeping my options open and I am chatting with anyone who has something interesting to chat about until I fall in love.

I am happily married. When I'm with my husband, I am happy. But he has a much more active social life than I do so he is out with friends often while I prefer to stay home.

I like having someone to chat with/flirt with while I'm home alone, which is often.

I'm not the type of person who is constantly buried in their phone, either. I know that sounds crazy to you people of reddit, but we do exist!

Maybe its just me, but I don't want to feel obligated to read and respond to your chats. I don't want another relationship that feels like a chore. I'm looking for chill and casual. I believe some of you refer to this as "slow burn"

My theory is that if we do the routine of "good morning what are your plans for the day" "how was your day?" We are falling right into the same shit that brought us here in the first place. The mundane that is marriage.

Antisocial personality. Like I said before. Maybe it's just me.

"But informal, if you're so antisocial, why are you even here?"

Great question! It's a common misconception that people who are antisocial don't crave human connection like the rest of you. It just looks different.

Also, if I'm sneaking around behind my husband's back it's not going to be for someone who looks like my dad 😭 I will never understand how some of you grew up and became your parents like that insurance commercial. But, to each his own.

So anyway, there was a rumor going around that I don't respond to chat requests so I want to clear this up 😔🙏

I am one woman. Multiple personalities, yes, but still... This one post will generate over 200 chat requests. I will look at them all. I will open them in order as they are received.

❌If the message only says "hey" ❌If there is a dick pic ❌If you are kink focused Automatic Out

Sending a picture does not get you an automatic in and I don't know who told you that it would. Neither will entitlement. I do not owe you a conversation because you made an effort to send a well thought out chat. I don't owe you an explanation if I'm not interested.

Now before you send that chat request, I want you to take a good look at yourself. Is your dead bedroom because you quit making effort? Did you let yourself go but blame your wife for not ravaging you like she used to? Is she too exhausted from raising your kids and keeping your house all day to be the sexy little thing she was when you got married?

If you're still here, peep my other posts and let me know what you think. And tell me what celebrity you have been told you most look like. I'll get back to you when I get back to you 😘