I know we aren't supposed to say that we're looking for a sexual outlet, because in theory everyone here is. But I've found that's just not true to the same degree for everyone.

So in the interests of being as up front as possible, I am a very sexual person. I have a high libido and I enjoy exploring new things and having fun with someone else. I also want to develop a close personal connection with that person and talk about all the other aspects of our lives. But there will be a strong sexual component interwoven with all of that.

I'm sure what I just wrote will have plenty of you rolling your eyes and biting your tongues. Or not biting your tongues...

I have an 8-5 office job and I'm able to chat a fair bit both at work and at home. I have kids so I'm not available 100% of the time, but I promise that my availability won't be something you'll complain about.

I like to read. I used to be much more of a voracious reader but these days I seem to go through phases. Maybe we can even give each other some motivation and read a book together. I mostly read fiction. Anything from Stephen King to Margaret Atwood to Charles Dickens.

When I'm not in a reading mood, you might find me playing the occasional video game. I also like to listen to music and I really enjoy trading recommendations. I like a range of genres but if you listen to country you can just keep that to yourself 😉.

Personality wise, I like to think I've got an okay sense of humor. I can be serious at times, and at other times silly. I can be a little sarcastic and will say what I'm thinking even at the risk of being a bit blunt. I hope that you'll be the same. Open and honest communication is important when it comes to this, and yes I realize there's some hypocrisy to that.

Please be in a North American time zone. I would also like it if you were my age or younger. To avoid wasting my time or yours, I prefer women with a slim to average build. I shave my head, but as long as that isn't an immediate turn off, I've been told I'm handsome.

If you think there's a chance we'd get along I hope to hear from you. You don't need to write me a novel in your opening message but please tell me at least a little bit about yourself. I won't respond to "hi" or any variations thereof.