You don't want to know the background; we're all here for similar reasons. I'm married and if you do really want to hear more about that, we can share later. I am an open book and willing to discuss most anything you're up for asking about.

What I'm looking for is likely different from most. I like someone intense, wishes to have control, and I'd even go as far as to say a bit bratty and who thrives on getting attention. Someone that likes to tease and deny and has experience doing so goes a long way. She knows what she wants and will say so. If you're repressed and afraid to let loose, we probably won't mesh well.

I'm looking for someone curious and wanting to encourage my deviant side again. It is Locktober after all and I'm locked... and well, not loaded I guess ;). I've essentially been deprived of depravity for years and I'm not meant to be vanilla and have complete freedom this week and pulled out some old things. I've had experience with pro dommes and the lifestyle in the past. If you already familiar with keyholding, you're checking all the boxes.

In terms of looks, I'm rather average the way I've always seen it. I'm 5'8, HWP build, brown hair and eyes, keep a short beard. As for what I am attracted to, I am by no means overly picky and I want to be as attracted to or more to your personality and attitude with this, but physical attraction does play a part so consider it bonus points if you fit my physical type: longer brunette or red hair, likes to show off and tease a bit, curvy, a nice pair of feet in wedges or sexy heels will have me wrapped around your finger.

I have a master's degree. I've excelled professionally. I'm usually free to chat throughout the day and I would like you to be able to as well, but I know things come up, work gets busy at times, whatever. I'm just looking for more than a casual chat here and there. The amount of control I have in my day-to-day life is why I'm desiring that escape in to submissiveness again.

Message me if anything caught your attention and we can see if there is some compatibility and go from there. I'm typically an early riser and in central US time. If you are a night owl in the pacific time zone, there's going to be limited compatibility, so please take that into consideration.