Here I am seeking that “oh so difficult to find” AP. I think to myself sometimes, am I the one making it difficult? Or is it just something in this modern day that is so taboo, that the task of finding an AP is just a difficult one itself? I have had a few solid OA with women who knew what they wanted. They were all short and sweet, and surprisingly all ended with no ghosting (although that has happened to me just like it has too many of us). Now, I have met a few psychos where everything is fine until it’s not. I’m not perfect either, but I will say one thing to everyone reading this. I practice discreetness like it’s a fucking religion when I’m talking to someone new. If we have a good thing going, but you decide otherwise, I’m leaving it be. We all have lives and situations we don’t want to break. Sure we are playing with fire, but that fire can be controlled. So please do not message me if you can’t control your fire.

With that said, about me… I’m not a 10, but I’m not a 0 either. I’m proud of my chubby dad bod and I know there are women out there who cream their pants for that look. 5’11, 230lbs, Italian/Polish, shaggy hair, glasses and a smile I’ve been told is super cute. Very into music and have been playing bass, guitar and keyboards for a long, long time. I am writing music every day and am really into anything. I try to stay in shape the best I can. I love Mt. biking and taking my 2 dopey hounds for hikes. Cooking is something that I grew up watching my family do and food is just dope.

About you? Not too picky TBH. I do have a thing for women with darker hair and curves. But at the end of the day, if we click, we click. If we don’t, we don’t. This is very much like dating. You can’t help who you fall for. All I ask of you is to be respectful, kind hearted and match my freak ;). Also please be in or around New England as I would like to work our way up to meeting at some point. My very first OA came to a point where we ended up meeting a few times. I personally am in CT, but willing to travel a tad if you are willing too.

I haven’t made a post in a while, so hopefully I covered everything. I will say one last thing. Trading pics early on is a must, and not on reddit. I prefer we chat first, then move to another form of communication and swap pics. This way we aren’t left wasting each other’s time. I know there’s a shit ton of us out there all eagerly waiting to find their person. Hoping to find you this time around!