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Hi.
I've been here before. I've ghosted, maybe because I feel like I feel like I've settled with who I'm chatting with and maybe because I started feeling kinda guilty. I've been ghosted, maybe for the same reasons. It's the nature of this kinda thing in my experience.
Not entirely unhappy in my marriage, but I'm missing something. Attention, joy, happiness. I'm looking for those. I want you to be happy for me and me to be happy for you. Things have just become more and more frustrating. She says she wants to be romanced more, but any time I initiate anything she turns me down. It's almost Pavlovian that if I start to think about having sex with her, I'll just take care of things myself instead. Maybe you can help with that.
Perfect situation: we're attracted to each other and click. It's a long term thing, and we take it from there. I want the passion and fire almost right away. Maybe thinking of you when I'm with her will actually help our relationship.
Am I expecting to find what I'm looking for? Not really, but we'll see what happens.
No kids. One dog, two cats. I work hybrid. I've got brown hair and a beard.
Let's get to know each other in chats.
I'm in central time. More than 2 hours difference won't work. I'm usually passed out in bed by 10pm.
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