I know you’re out there. Otherwise why would I bother posting?b

I’ve had some good experiences. Lots of bad. But I know that you’re out there. Although I also know it’s sheer luck if we find each other. But maybe, just maybe, you read this, you message me and then…..?

So I’m in a situation that isn’t bad, in many ways it’s good. It’s not a situation that I want to change or destroy. Nor is yours. We both want to enhance our lives, not jeopardise anything.

So here I am. 42 married with kids. In a profession that really shouldn’t accommodate those with adulterous tendencies (but judging from my experience it really does!).

I’m in good shape and enjoy working hard to maintain that. I’m told I’m attractive but I know that’s completely subjective so happy to endure the horrific pic exchange at an early stage.

I love running. I love historical fiction (books, audio, music, all of it), I love music (New Order, 90s trance, anything decent really) and I love travel and exploration (physical and metaphorical).

So that’s me. And you are you. And if you think we might click then I’d love to hear from you…….

…..if not I genuinely wish you all the best in your search.