Hope you like a direct map cause, it's nonsense leading you any other way. Not an ahole with the bullet points but don't want anyone to guess who I am or what I'm looking for. *You can ask what the disclaimer is later

Me- - 3 Kids (only 2 still at home, both teens) - 6'1, 185 not a gym rat but not out of shape - Sarcasm is my super power - Offended by 0 so bring it on - Stupid cliche: "not changing my situation" FOR NOW but it's never off the table - Have time to talk most of the day and night but I refuse to be the only one engaging - If you're in love with your husband and just need "extra", I'm not right for you. Not here for a buddy - I want to discuss anything you want to discuss. That means ANYTHING - I'm an affectionate guy (after we get to know each other), you don't like that, move on - Not here for immediate sexting, that needs to take a while

You- - Anyone that says looks don't matter is a big ass liar. Just be HWP. If you're a mom, you have extra weight, it's ok. 5' and 180lb is not HWP, just be honest. Pics should be traded fairly early -Personality can 100% trump looks - We are on an affairs site, is there any reason to live in a lie? You can't talk cause your family is around, totally cool, just say that - DO NOT get offended because I believe differently than you. How boring is it if you agree on everything? - TALK, ask questions, I promise I'll answer -If I'm not for you, say it from the start - Don't hesitate to express your feelings and thoughts, I like and want that. Don't be a brick freaking wall

Direct enough?