It might be a moment of lingering eye contact. A subtle touch of your arm. A compliment that sticks in your mind longer than it should. Easy enough to suppress that feeling in deference to your marriage, right?

These events and feelings slowly compound and attach like the first drops of rain in a storm— before it becomes clear. It’s not just an attraction, more than a flirtation. We are going to fuck. What is that feeling like when you first realize it? Fast forward from the flutter in your chest and the warmth in your face after the flirting grows more bold. It’s hard to even remember the chain of events that led us here

But now you’re getting pummeled through a couch. Screaming , desperate, explosive fucking that would absolutely devastate your husband if he found out. This sex is just the most potent type in the world. Rough reckless fucking that releases an entire marriage worth of tension and stress. The sound of your body getting pounded and the things coming from your mouth will stay with us forever. You find yourself doing things you never do with him, and you only want to do without him.

Let’s talk and see if there’s chemistry, maybe those first few drops of rain. Open to chatting online and meetups if the vibes are good. If you haven’t crossed the line yet, I want to talk about how it could happen for you.

I want it to be so primal and reckless that if your husband or boyfriend finds out it will ruin his life.

My problem here is that I’ve experienced the intense and heart-pounding pleasure of being “the other man”. I don’t usually seek it out, but the sex is just the most potent type in the world. Rough, desperate, screaming reckless fucking that releases an entire marriage worth of tension and stress. You’re using me in this moment, I’m certainly using you.

Inevitably this leads to feelings, connection, longing. I want that too. I want to ride the intensity of this thing into a place where we could even experience love, in all its complications and impossibilities given our circumstances.

I like women who can be unassuming , either due to shyness OR an assertive personality, but who are utterly surprising in their ferocity in taking a railing. Things will come out of your mouth that will bring your husband to collapse if he heard them.

Me: 6’2, 240lbs. Half white, half Latino. I have broad shoulders and a muscular build with a little dad bod coating. I lift weights 5 days a week, run, and do yoga. All to keep energy and fight the dad bod. Salt and pepper hair, short beard, thick lips, olive skin. Married and not looking to change that.

Kinks: Big tits, real or fake, are fun but not essential. I also love deepthroating—The type where it’s never mentioned until you reveal it at an opportune moment. Obviously cheating, secrecy, betrayal. Humor is also extremely hot