Well, I promised myself I wouldn't be back but here I am. I think after you hit the jackpot once, then you keep trying, so why not one more role. To get the description out of the way, I'm a 51 year old married white male, have an athletic to hwp body depending on my workout commitment that month but I am not obsessive about working out, it just makes me feel better when I do! I'm average height, just under 6' tall, have a shaved head, beard, and some tattoos. Personality wise, I like to describe myself as a cool nerd, although maybe more nerd than cool! I have the stereotypical likes, hiking, biking, reading, and being outside in general, but I guess we like them because they are fun! Music is important to me, I have played guitar since my early teens and once had glorified dreams of being a rock star! I read and watch a lot of sci-fi/fantasy, I love to cook and eat, hence the working out, and I have also traveled a lot.

I am yet again looking for that elusive OA connection, that perfect blend of friendship, excitement, and passion that we all desire. I have no particular type that I am looking for. I prefer to talk to women that can contribute more than a few word answers to an endless stream of questions. I have plenty of time to chat and hope to find someone in a similar situation. I also enjoy voice and video calls when possible. I am living in a roommate/dead bedroom situation and I am looking to add some companionship, fun and excitement back in to our lives. Yes, I do want to form a NSFW side to the connection, as missing the intimacy is one of the worst things about a dead bedroom. However, intimacy is not just sex, its being their to comfort and support each other, to laugh and explore with each other.

I am very much an open book, I find that is the best way to be on here. I am happy to answer any questions and also share pictures early on to make sure that physical connection is there. I would like to move off Reddit when we are comfortable, as I really don't like Reddit chat but there is no rush. I hope you are having a great week so far and if this post resonates with you, and you made it through the novel of a post, I really hope to hear from you.