Isn’t that just the way of things here 💀

Is that really so bad? I DO get how people become so frustrated with the search, although I don’t feel the same way. Most of this IS the search, and I have really enjoyed meeting the people I have, even when it doesn’t really work out, because frankly, most of them don’t really work out! There’s such a wide variety of characters out there, so many of you are gloriously uninhibited by the circumstances to really be yourselves for once, and I love that 🥰

Alright, enough meta, let’s get down to it.

I am a loving husband and father who wants something more. I am not new to this and I’ve had great connections before, even long lasting ones, so maybe that’s how I’ve come to know/accept that it’s a journey, not a destination. I could tell you about how handsome I am (for better or worse, I have become aware of it🙄) just like every other guy here. Oh and we are all “fit” too! 😂 Well, same. Abs and muscles. I have that elusive “full head of hair” that so many of you seem to want, successful career, and I’m slightly above average height. Yeah, yeah…so what else is good? I consider myself an emotionally available person, an expressive texter, and I’m also available on many evenings and weekends! I travel pretty freely, should we eventually want to meet, so please be open to that. I value kindness, wit, fitness, punctuation, punctuality, punctiliousness (wait, what? 🤔) silly humor, smart humor, and dark humor. I’m not terribly interested in talking politics, but I do lean left. I like to send and receive lots of pictures, circle videos (TG PLZ), voice calls, Spotify links, memes, etc. I’m a “words of affirmation” kind of guy, and I’m brave enough to tell ya if I’m not feeling it.

So let’s narrow it down a bit: I vibe with a lot of people, but physical attraction is harder for me to find. If that resonates with you, maybe we’d be a good fit. I need a pretty face, and a figure that could be described as slim, fit, athletic, or muscular. If you aren’t sure if you’re conventionally attractive, sorry, not the one. Eastern and central time zones are preferred. Available more than just business hours, and open to meeting IRL eventually.

Softer limits: I find I typically match best with younger women; let’s say late twenties to mid thirties. Older than that and the physical attraction isn’t as likely to be there; younger and we may not have much in common or compatible communication styles, but if you think you’re the exception either way, I’m open to it.

This ended up being waaaay too long 💀 Tell me about you. ❤️