Good Afternoon!

It's been a while since I have posted on here, but I wanted to reach out, open myself up again, and see what happens. As the title says, I am looking for something a little different than the typical post would contain... Well not to an extreme, but on a more specific level.

What I want:

• Someone who is understanding that i will make them a priority, & matches that energy. Knowing that’s we both have obligations, and that we will reply to one another when we’re able to.

• Connection beyond just words on a screen. I am very much a person who feels comfortable on the phone.No, it doesn't mean I am going to be asking for your number, but I want someone who is open to talking on voice. I find there is no better way to connect than on the phone.

• Let the verbal sparring begin! I know everyone says they can be sarcastic, clever, or funny, so bring it on! I love the banter throughout a conversation. I don't take myself too seriously, I have fun, I would like you to feel the same way.

• the physical connection. I’m open to all size, shape, ethnicity, you name it! All I ask is that you’re shorter than me, I’m 6’5 & as unlikely as that is, it’s not for me.

• The mental connection. Yes, I have connection on here twice, and that is to emphasis how important it is. I want to feel close and make a connection with you before we travel down a path of opening up physically or sexually. To me, it's important to have that kind of connection, plus once you have it, all the other things fall into place naturally.

• Chatting outside of just reddit. Reddit is good to break the ice, but when it comes to chatting online I mainly use telegram, it’s far more user friendly.

Here's what I know I don't want:

• I don't want this to turn into a beating up your spouse venting session, or how much you want to get out of your situation. I am not here to change my situation and I don't want to change your situation. This doesn't mean we can't complain about life together. But ragging on your spouse is a huge turn off... especially early on.

So l am afraid to see how long this post ended up, and I will blame my endless rambling... Although if you made it this far, reach out! Let's see if we can start something fun and exciting…

P.S. This goes without saying, but I'm married. You should be too.