Here I am, working from home and on mute on a Teams meeting, listening, but not paying attention. I am browsing OA and hoping to find a connection. I have been here before. You don't have to have been here before, just know what you want! I am looking for effort and intention.

What I am not looking for:

• Anyone selling anything
• A copy/paste reply asking me to message you elsewhere, not even responding to anything in my message
• Someone who does not know what you want. When I ask what you are looking for, if you don't have an answer, you are probably not my person

What I am looking for:

• Someone looking for long term
• Doesn't take themselves too seriously, i.e., is more lighthearted
• Does actually want sexual fun - no, thats not everything, but it is important
• Likes lists

I am tall, fit, active and attractive. I do actually like hiking - in part because I am a photographer and I enjoy being outdoors and finding the beauty in the world. I am a runner and enjoy being physically fit and active, but do not require that in an OA partner! If you are into it or want to become more active, I will absolutely be your cheerleader!

I have been married a long time, and while I do not want to leave, there are things that are missing. I am not looking to spouse bash, but I am looking for whats missing at home, and am past the struggle or guilt associated with realizing I need to look outside my marriage to get it. I do not have any kids, but don't mind those that do! We both have lives, and should understand that while we want to talk to one another, real life can get in the way. I am patient, within limits. If you say hello and then don't respond for three days, you probably don't have enough time for this.

I know what I want, its someone who is eager for an exciting connection, getting to know someone new and build something lasting. Is it you? If you have read this far, send me a list that you think would be interesting or fun, any list of things!