Sunday evening. I’m sure everyone is winding down. Hopefully we can do that together

Let me just lay it all out there clearly for everyone. I just don’t want to waste anyone’s time.

What I want:

1. I think the most important thing is finding someone who has time for this. I don’t mean being able to meet all the time. But someone who has time to communicate and get to know each other. I understand that we have our work/home lives but hopefully you are able to chat freely during the day for the most part and still able to in the evenings and on weekends as well. If there is a time that you know you won’t be able to talk, I’d love for you to let me know. I will always do my best to show the same courtesy. This isn’t needed to make me happy, but I feel it shows we care enough to keep each other posted. 
2. Be happy. Obviously there is something missing from our relationships that has brought us here, but ideally I’d like you to be happy overall and wanting me  to be the one that just sends you over the top. 
3. You’re looking for exclusivity. Whether you are in a dead bedroom or still have sex with your husband, I’d prefer the only other guy you’d want to be with is me. I’m looking for one person to connect with. I’ll explain a bit more about this below. 
4. Race/ethnicity don’t matter to me when it comes to attraction. Age and body type aren’t super important either but here are my preferences. Be around 28 or older. I think the closer you are to my age, the more we’d have in common but my last AP (it was just online) was 9 years younger than me and we had a great relationship for over 2 years. Also, I have zero problem if you are older than me. When it comes to body type, all I ask is that you have some sort of awareness of your health. You could be toned, fit, and work out regularly or you could be someone who knows some changes need to be made to become more healthy. Even if you are just starting to workout, or at least have been trying to motivate yourself to work out, that’s more than enough for me. 
5. Be honest. I understand that’s a weird request considering the sub we are on, but I meant that we should be honest with each other. 

About me:

I’ve been with my wife for 10 years and have been in a dead bedroom for the last 3 of them. I found an online AP and when we ended things earlier this year I decided I needed some sort of physical connection. I had a ONS and then a couple of flings that didn’t last more than a month. I found myself feeling not nearly as satisfied as I thought I would be. It’s the connection I miss and crave. Having a person that I can’t wait to talk to the moment I wake up. This is all coming from a guy who isn’t super romantic too. It’s just nice to share my day with someone. I love talking about anything and everything. I don’t need or want this to be only about sex. To be honest, I think sex gets better the more comfortable we both get with each other. I’m kinky and open minded. I love the idea of exploring new things together but that all will come with time. I’m really in this for something long term. Lots of laughs, pics, vids, voice texts, voice calls, video calls (obviously when time permits). I’m 5’11, 180lbs, have an athletic-ish build (sorry if dad bods are your preference; it’s just not me though), nice arms, chest, and shoulders. I shave my head because I prefer the way I look this way. I have a beard, a few tattoos, and a killer smile. I educated and have a challenging and rewarding career that I enjoy. I’m clean, honest, fun, funny, respectful, and a great communicator.

I really hope this wasn’t horribly boring to read but I feel that the right woman for me would have enjoyed this post. Please reach out and hopefully tell me a bit about yourself. I’m really looking forward to getting to know each other.