Seriously, this is a terrible time to post, for me in particular because I suck at staying up late. Not that I don't want to, but work and life and kids just wear me out. Also, the week is over, we have all had a drink or three and we are feeling weekendish... Is this really the best time to post in an attempt to find something that might last a while??

I hope so, because I am looking for someone that wants to be all in with me. I man looking for someonr that wants someone to be all in with them. Right?? Because this can be great if we both come with the same energy, looking for the same thing. Not a quick Friday virtual hook up. Not a distraction, as so many posts put it. No, you and I want the whole experience, a boyfriend girlfriend relationship, that doesn't disrupt our real lives but means everything to us all the same. I know these are lofty goals for this late in the evening, but I hate writing the same post twice and I am adverse to resorting to all the standard cliches, so maybe read this post and sleep on it and sneak a message to me in the morning and I will sneak one back and perhaps something beautiful can start.

I am married, like I said, and a dad, like I alluded to. From experience in this world, I am attractive, but I only care if you think so. I have plenty of time during my days and nights and weekends for this, and I hope that you do as well. Oh, and my time exists in the EST.

When I said I want the whole girlfriend boyfriend experience, I want it, and I've been giving a lot of thought about what we could do past the normal chit chat and pleasantries. I would love to watch a movie or read a book together, at the same time or by a certain point so we could share our thoughts. I would love to find an album that we could listen to on our commutes and talk about after. I would love if we could come up with a recipe for dinner for the family together and spend the time texting while we prepared it. Don't get me wrong, I want everything with this experience... The texting all day. The good nights and good mornings. The naughty talk. The sharing of secrets. The creation of inside jokes. All of it. But I think we can do so much more, and I want to finally find someone that is actually excited at that prospect.

If you made it this far, I don't have a specific task for you to prove you did. I am just happy you were interested in this, because I haven't been finding a lot of people lately that are. I feel like I am losing my touch, do you feel that way too? Anyway, no tasks other than write me a reply and say hello. We won't know if we are perfect for each other until we start a conversation.