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Well, besides getting myself into a complicated eight-year affair, I also committed the cardinal sin of letting it be with a co-worker. And, yes, we still work together, though itās been over for about a year. Awkward much? š
I donāt think words exist that can effectively communicate the comedy and tragedy of that relationship. Itās left me a changed person; Iām just not sure if thatās for the better or the worse.
Iāve spent a long time in deep contemplation about all of this. I never planned to have an affair. It just happened naturally as a consequence of unexpected chemistry in a work partnership. What I discovered is that my heart grew a space for another person, a sphere that only belonged to us.
Now that itās over, Iāve discovered that this place in my heart still existsābut itās empty. I want to know if it can be filled again.
Iām not the person you would expect to find here, but here I am. Wouldnāt my family be proud?
Iām looking for a long term match: married, parent, educated, professional, athletic, attractive, self-aware, and not crazy. You certainly wonāt be disappointed in me.
Iām a former college athlete and still stay active. I am 5ā10, 175 lbs, 32ā waist. I have multiple higher ed degrees, and I am in a long time professional career in public service. I love working with and helping people. I believe that kindness is the most needed quality in the world, and I donāt suffer fools well.
My hobbies are variedāa real renaissance kind of thing. Art, architecture, music, sports, current events, travel, woodworking, fishing, etc.
Please be 35 and within an hourās radius of the Boston, Worcester, Providence triangle.
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