This is very likely my last attempt as I'm not having much luck here... Not sure why. I'm probably just trying way too hard right now and desperation isn't sexy I know. Just crave some attention from a lady. And maybe if we click catching some feels.

I had OAs before, not here but on other corners of Reddit, with talking for months and falling deeply in love. Miss that right now and hope it could maybe happen again... I'm very aware that the likelihood it happens again is quite low if you want to enforce it. But one can hope. lol

I’m really easy going, uncomplicated, compassionate, non judgemental, a really good listener, knowledgeable, smart, and have a great (dark) sense of humor. Tall (6'1"), dad bod, hung, masculine with brown hair that's thinning a bit, and a full salt-and-pepper beard. I’ve got an alternative artist vibe, minus the tattoos. I used to be really handsome. Women would kind of line up for me. I don't really like how I look right now and I'm working on it, but women still notice me.. I let you be the judge. haha

I noticed that most of you are in the US and the time zone is a thing. Let me just say I’m super flexible with my time (self-employed artist, no kids), so I can totally make it work.

Other than that I’m sex positive, kink friendly (switch), I like vanilla too.. I do have a healthy sex drive but I don't want this to be solely sexual. I'm even open to platonic love.

About you: I don't have a type and find many bodies sexy, but I have a weakness for really smart women. And I’m looking for someone compassionate and curious who truly wants to know me. And please be emotionally mature and introspective. I’m too old for drama and games.

I think it goes without saying that I’m not looking to change your situation or mine.

If you’ve read this far, thanks a lot (I know it was long). If I sparked even a little curiosity, give me a shot! Maybe we’ll click!!