Between the co-dependancy, complete lack of any meaningful conversation, tiktoks being shoved in my face the moment I get home (cause apparently that's how to communicate now); constant over sharing (for hours) about the mundane minutia of her everyday work day, but never even pressing to ask about mine; absolute lack of intimacy or any spark/passion; same conversations every single day, about the same topics... I just can't stand to be home. I'd rather be at work. I'm going to a concert tonight, and she won't be joining 'cause we ended up getting a new pup. As much as I'm looking forward to being out of the house, I'm dreading the guilt I'm going to end up feeling cause I'm not sitting on the couch across from her.
I don't know exactly what I'm looking for... certainly not a sounding board to dump all my relationship grievances down lol. I want someone fun, energetic, exciting. Can keep a conversation going. A spark. It doesn't have to be sexual, though eventually encouraged, cause I'm certainly missing that.
More about me: skinny, slim fit build. Bald, trimmed beard and tattoos. Favorite season is coming up, fall and spooky season. Horror movies already on repeat and decorating. Sober, but music is my drug, and always happy to share and receive new stuff. Love the outdoors, and all things 4 legged. Huge softie on the inside, very secure, kind, gentle, but sarcasm is my love language, so be prepared to laugh. Dark humor also a huge plus. No kids, just the 4 legged variety.
You: Age isn't really a factor. Just be old enough to rent a car. Tattoos/alt to the front but absolutely not a requirement. Please be HWP. I'd be lying if I said looks aren't a factor, but that's true of most anyone on here. Be honest. You don't need to be sober, I was just really good at being very bad at it. Just be you.
This is long enough I've probably lost most of you ny now, so message anytime. I'm off most of the week for vacation... at home.
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