I keep asking myself where did things go so wrong in my life that I’m on reddit trying to find someone to just give me the basic attention and love that I want from my marriage. How messed up is that? I’ve never thought I could be in a relationship and yet also be so damn lonely.

I don’t want to waste our time talking about our partners and how bad our situations are. Instead, I want to focus on the good - of you and me. Be there for each other, look forward to those texts, dive deep into each other’s feelings and dreams. I want someone with the time to message often. Someone who is thoughtful and kind. Someone sexy.

I’m a petite Asian with a big heart. Let’s get to know each other and see if we click.

Any low effort responses will be ignored.

Edit - holy crap guys. My inbox is having a seizure…. Apologies if I can’t reply to everyone. It’s honestly overwhelming. I’m so sorry because there are so many wonderful people out there. I wish you all the best of luck. I really do. It seems like so many of us are in the same situation of being starved for love.

Edit 2 - guys, I truly am sorry I can’t reply to everyone that is messaging me. So many of you are amazing and wonderful, but I just can’t invest the time in 200 people :) I want to be a bite more specific to hopefully prevent people from wasting their time

I generally like older, mature men. Maybe up to 50. I don’t think a significant age gap would work for a long term relationship, but for what I’m looking for here I think it’s doable. I’m looking for someone that is kind and can stimulate me mentally and emotionally. I’m looking for someone real and emotionally open. Someone that loves to read and maybe creative. I’ve always kind of liked those nice, introvert guys, but please be talkative and able to carry your weight in the conversation. If you want pics right off the bat, I’m not the girl for you. I want you to fall in love with my mind and my heart. I promise you’ll like the rest of me when the time comes.