Here I go, committing OA suicide by making a post that talks explicitly about sex rather than deep, meaningful conversation and all the feelings. Don't get me wrong, I want both, but I'm searching for something quite specific.

For many people, sexual exchanges in online affairs start with spicy pictures and sexting. I want something a little deeper. I want you to be the type of person who's never been able to explore sexually as much as you would have liked. Maybe you settled down with your husband/ltr before your sexuality blossomed, and now you can't stop thinking about all the experiences you missed out on. When you're in a relationship where you can't explore your kinks and fantasies, they all get bottled up in your mind, and you're the type to explore them online and overly intellectualise every little detail. All that repression means that there are things you're desperate to explore that you've been afraid to admit to anyone before.

Until now.

I find kinks and sexuality endlessly interesting, and I want our conversations to be open, and free-wheeling, and explorative. I'd like a dynamic where we're both excited about understanding our sexualities more deeply, and where we take an active interest in one another's fantasies. Have you ever wondered why you like the things you like? Perhaps with me you'll find the answer.

Outside of the sex, it goes without saying that we'll enjoy one another's company and conversation, and get lost in the excitement of developing a little crush that might turn into something more.

Me: social, introspective, good conversationalist, successful, well educated, sometimes overly analytical. Physically tall, slender, and well put together.

You: open minded, curious, playful, smart, positive. Physically pretty and petite/slender/fit.