Hey friends. Thanks for stopping by.

I want to start by posting the things I am NOT. This way I'm not wasting anyone's time....

• I am not a size 2. I will never be a skinny woman.
• I am not fully white. I've been ghosted when my biracial nature is exposed.
• I am not a mother. Though I hope in the future, its just not happening at this time. I adore children and am happy if you do or don't have them. :)
• I am not your standard "hwp" person so so many of you men seek.
• I am NOT interested in Men who are younger than me. Thank you, but also, no thank you.
• I am NOT interested in Men who can't actually hold a conversation.

But what I AM:

• I am a wife who is in desperate need for connection.
  
• I am a woman who stands up tall at 5'8 to be exact.
  
• I have a very unique job.
• I'm a definite smartypants.
• I'm a banter and riffing queen.
• I'm kinda pretty I guess? Beauty is definitely in the eye of the beholder.
• I have a sexy and full hourglass body. I used to have pictures on my profile but was harassed recently online, so I took them down. Hopefully I'll gain the courage to post again, as it really was an empowering thing.
• I am very body positive and believe in breaking the cycles and chains surrounding body image.
• I am charismatic in my nature and a flirt for sure.

What I am hoping for:

• NOT to be ghosted. I won't ghost you, because I have the balls to tell you if we do or don't vibe.
• A connection with someone that will be interesting and will last.
• A man who is comfortable with his body. You would be surprised how many men aren't, just like us ladies.
• A Man who actually wants to satiate my needs, emotionally, romantically, mentally and sexually (in due time). I sure as hell want to make sure this man is satiated as well.

I'm just a married, fully figured gal in New England with some freckles on her face and a lot of love to give. I'm hoping I can find that person for me.

Good luck to all of you out there. Beware of the scammers and the bots. May the OA gods smile down on us all.

Take care everyone!