I’ve been around long enough to know some things. One thing I learned quickly is, you don’t know exactly what you want until you have it and then it might feel differently than expected

I’ve had the fortune of finding someone who checks all my boxes. We vibe. We’re attracted. We’re laughing. But then it doesn’t work for one reason or another. Silver lining is you learn more about what you want, what you need, and especially what you can’t do.

I’m not going to fix you. I’m not a fairy god daddy who can waggle my magic wand and fix your situation and ride off happily ever after.

At best I’m a pleasant distraction and someone who makes you want to feel better. We, as individuals, control our fate. The right company makes it a more enjoyable ride

I’m looking for chemistry, attraction and fantasy but all of it based in real honest communication. I’m not proud of my past but it’s brought me here. Cheating isn’t a kink for me. I don’t want to roast our SOs. I’m rare in that I’m not abandoning my marriage. I’m working on it. I’m just a realist with years of actions over words

We’ve been partnered since we were 18. Never had the wild exploration phase but never needed it until you hit your 30s and look at your life and think ‘how did we let it get this way?’

So here I am. I’m a married, very handsome (according to Reddit) father of 3 young boys. I’ve got plenty of time during the day and I’d really like an intimate connection full of sharing with each other. It’s mostly normal friendly flirty conversations with a side of what we both need. Attraction is important and I’ve been spoiled with a lot of success so my standards are not impossible but very high. Not that I only care about looks. It’s like a prerequisite to finding out how smart and funny and charming you are.

Thanks for reading and good luck finding what you need today 😘

Also mean people suck and need not apply