Hello, I am a man, a man from Ireland, at least on the outside. On the inside I'm half posterchild for ADHD, half goth kid who never got to be a goth.

I suck at selling myself, I think its part genuine modesty and part irish guilt but here goes anyway.

I'm between 5ft 9 and 10, short hair, short beard, they're both brownish with a hint of something else in there. It's not dirt, I've showered and the colour stays the same.

Average to slightly chubby build which I'm working on, been told I have nice eyes and a nice voice... I'm skeptical about both so you can judge if we ever get past the "so what do u do 4 fun" small talk.

On that note I love talking to people, I really love hearing all the things that they've experienced, I adore listening to someone talk about something they're passionate about.

I don't mind small talk, but I love big talk. I'm not afraid to be fully open with people and it makes me happy when people feel comfortable enough to be open with me the same way.

People have told me I should be a therapist, or maybe I've just misheard them and they really say I should see a therapist.. either way I like listening to people.

I have a lot of hobbies and interests but the basic ones are the typical reddit nerd things.. video games, movies, books, music etc.

I have a weird sense of humour, think dad jokes if the dad was a nihilistic teenager. On that note I do not have kids.

I'm not married, I'm in an LTR, things aren't "bad" but they aren't exactly fantastic either. I'm sure we'll talk about all that stuff if we hit it off anyway.

One thing, I am not a Dom, like at all. If anything I'm the total opposite if kink is involved. I only bring it up because it's caused issues in the past.

So what am I looking for? Well I don't have a "type" when it comes to looks. I really just want someone easy to talk to, who's level of weird matches my own.

I find all bodytypes attractive, and age doesn't matter too much.. but if you think you're too young for me then you probably are.

Anyway if any of this sounds interesting to you or you'd just like to point out any spelling errors feel free to say hi.