I am looking for someone kind, caring, levelheaded, understanding, impartial, and genuine. I know that’s a long shot considering being in this subreddit, but I want to find someone who I can be open and honest with. I understand we may be both in situations that are complex and we have no interest in leaving for an array of reasons, but I’m okay and can find peace and joy within just being your person from afar.

I am a very passionate person who enjoys hearing sweet words and speaking them as well. I am very open verbally and need someone who is also naturally the same way. I want someone who isn’t afraid to dive in emotionally and engage in this give and take of each other.

I’m a professional yapper. But also a very good listener. I love to romanticize the smallest of things. I fall in love with things/people daily and find to be a very grateful and appreciative person. I make it a task to find joy wherever I can. But I’m not totally delusional. I do see the ugly in the world and people and find myself puzzled and hurt by it at times. I’m a very emotional creature who is overall a very sensitive soul at my core. But due to the different hats I wear in life like my job title, motherhood, etc. I can’t show it and have to hold onto a hard exterior or I’ll turn to absolute mush. (It’s not cute). I am looking for someone I can share my softness with. Come be my safe haven and I’ll be yours.

Beyond the mushy stuff:

I am Latina. Can be considered an alt girlie, black hair ofc, and plus size/curvy. I’m considered girly. Hair done, nails done, make up done always.

I’ve only ever really been with Hispanic men, but I’m open to any and all type of men. Height is not a factor to me. I do find myself attracted to brown and tanner men for some reason. Also, brown eyes and dark hair are my favorite and so underrated.

I enjoy psychology, doodles, beer, live music, Wordle, long convos, red lipstick, view spots, dive bars, a man in fresh cologne, and strong shoulders.

If you are interested please feel free to hit me up. My availability is not too hot today or the next but I’ll be around :)