I’m grateful for all that I have. Married for 10yrs with 8yo twins, who are both pretty fantastic.

I get along with my wife, but she’s been done sexually for ~5 years now. And between her business kids stuff, we very rarely get to talk let alone actually be alone together. So that’s what brings me here.

It’s not natural nor easy to suppress your sexuality, and to also go without companionship, especially for 5 years. I was hoping to find a married woman whom I connect with. Someone who’s in tuned with their sexuality and that I could look forward to getting to know. That being said, I am not looking to change our situations, nor talk bad about our spouses.

Would prefer this to be a relationship that is long term, engaging, light and fun, but deeper sometimes. I don’t care where ya live necessarily.

I’m available to chat early mornings (I get up at 4:30am PST), and all day while I work. I’m also available to chat in the evenings sometimes.

Me: 49, CA, but grew up in Midwest & TX, started college when I was 34 (nutrition major), very fit (don’t care if you are fit or interested in nutrition), empathetic and very affectionate. Oh, and one of my fav bands: Cigarettes After Sex

I tend to gravitate towards thicker/curvy women, but connection is most important Just please be fun, engaging, a little flirty, honest and open.